Tell the family whose house was robbed that they too were, "asking for it" Tell the boy in the hospital that the drunk driver, "didn't mean it" Tell the grandmother whose car was stolen that she is, "overreacting" Tell the school that the shooter, "wouldn't do that, he's too nice" Tell the kindergartener who is being bullied to, "get over it" Tell the survivor of a hate crime they're lucky because, "it could have been worse"