In the first step I was born. In the second step practices to seat,stand up and move. the third step I started to know who am I and reveal my first words to my family then to my friends forth step is education, low level,high level, tertiary then work.
if you get tummy or getting smoke you have to know you missed one step and you will fall and starting to step one will be hard.
Hard of stress,hard of blames,hard of respecting the elder ,being able to choose the wrong side saying they hate me ,while you are the one who missed the third step to win the last step.
forcus in education then the rest will follow, let me remind you that life is a ladder