You are not there You do not understand "Of course I do! I feel the pain just as you!" No, my friend, you are not there You have not felt the ache to be free only to pay the price of abysmal loneliness. You have not lost a love or your companion. You have not pined after one and not have them pine back for you. You have not experienced the heartache that never stops. No, my dear friend. You are not there You do not understand.