love is carrot launching off the third floor balcony replacing underwear with oranges sitting in a circle ten wide playing Mafia dancing to Steely Dan in the kitchen pool rafts and cousins and DCOMs father’s day watching golf on TV with oldies music dance parties everything but the kitchen sink trail mixes popsicle parties and two different colors of eye shadow photoshoots with best friends and “Elephant” on vinyl secret sharing with sisters on bunk beds your best friend writing you a poem called “Sail On Silver Girl” dancing to “Round Here” in the living room when dad came home matching t shirts and coming home barefoot drinking black coffee with the windows open October air and the smell of apples with a hint of cinnamon singing “rivers and roads” by the fire on the beach with the fireworks your dad’s friends handing you beers because their own daughters wont drink them holding hands with somebody you’ve never met before at church tri-state Netflix movie nights your grandpa noticing that your eye makeup is different hearing “poor man’s son” live and acapella the movie Fired Up and how it never gets old love is the sound of laughter and never saying uncle .