If a husband and wife don't quarrel or if a husband and wife have never quarreled before, then it means that they are not telling each other the truth. If a boyfriend has never quarreled with his girlfriend before, it means they are deceiving each other. What am trying to say is that two couples must have a misunderstanding or quarrel. It is normal. But what is not normal is malice. I have seen cases where a husband and his wife don't greet each other for one week and yet they are living in the same house. I have seen cases where husband and wife don't talk to each other for many days because of a small quarrel that happened. I have also seen a case where a man refused to eat his wife's food because his wife quarreled with him. A boyfriend will not call his girlfriend for many weeks because of one little misunderstanding. Why? Because of ego. Nobody wants to be the first to apology. This is very bad. Malice destroys marriage and relationship. When both of you had a quarrel, do not nurse the anger for up to 24 hours. If your partner did not apology, be the first to say "am sorry" even if you are not at fault. Just do it for the sake of peace. Two wrongs cannot make a right. Save your relationship. Any man who refuses to eat his wife's food because of a quarrel is a boy. The man is not mature at all. Malice is childish. Mature people quarrel and settle and play together again on that same day. Save your marriage. Save your relationship.