I am divorced, but not stupid. Time was, I was a mentally unstable *******. That is why my wife divorced me. She did what was necessary to protect herself and our children. I don't blame her, I am grateful for her courage. I tell people I will never marry again because I couldn't find someone better. That is true and from the heart. You can't be sorry about 30 great years. Sadly, not all endings are fairy tale happy. I can only sincerely wish her happiness and I do.