put your fingers in her ear and tell her to stop listening, just watch. put her in front of the mirror and tell her to stop watching, just listen. she hears the anger pour from her mouth and witnesses the lines she creates when she puts on that frown. she listens for the silence but the quiet is out. she looks at the reflection to a face full of doubts. turn her around, she starts at it again. turn her upside down and let the blood pour out of her head. she screams and screeches until her voice goes mute and she's kicking and punching until she tires herself out. now she lies there, sweet and innocent, calm and collected. you stay silent. you stay courteous and respectful. she'll do her worst, but she'll drain it all out. don't use force. don't use words. stand and listen. watch and learn. for you know her worse but love her best.