The arrogance of the men and their violence in all possible forms – completely everyday or extraordinary, subtle or extreme, considered as being normal or abnormal – depend on this, of course, that they are either denied or justified from the perpetrators of the violence themselves. But also by the women in any way glossed over, excused or forgiven, which from childhood to the present day, in Western countries too, has been brainwashed thoroughly, which means: shut up, be obedient and offer no resistance.