Sometimes we may take the wrong road through disobedience. Sometimes it has people that we were never meant to meet. Sometimes Christ expects us to loose the things that we accumulated. Because we gain those things out of disobedient toward him. In turn he shall draw us back into his fold and bless us other ways. But in those times he is calling us to let go of that stuff we better listen. Because he does not play around with sin , and expect obedience from us. So unless you truly are trying to reject him, you better listen to him For his ways are perfect ours are sinful as well as evil so you better listen.