No matter what is going on in your life here. No matter what you might be going through. No matter who is in your life and how they got there. There is really two things that really matter in life. Do you belong to the Christ your Lord and Savior. Secondly are you following him and his Holy Word. These two things are all that really matters in this life. Because without him being in your life does anything else matters. For he came not to condemn but to save that which is lost John3;17