"I'd choose physical abuse over verbal abuse." That statement never made any sense to me. I mean having the living **** beat out of you hurts. Then I realized Your bones heal. Bruises fade. And everything stops bleeding. After that you're just left with the words. I can remember all the hateful words. So, it makes sense being torn apart mentally is much more painful. You can't unread text, emails, or letters. You can not forget words.