In the start you have nothing,
Excluding many excuses on "why not."
There is no real reason not to,
There will be other parties,
Other reasons,
Other friends;
However, if you continue this path of shattered priorities there will be nothing for you in life.
Nothing but sorrow and regret.
The things worth it in life are never easy but are going to pay off one day,
But that day will never happen until you apply yourself.