When days will pass without a written word or weeks go by and no responses read, don't think that any interest is dead. It usually means that life itself has lured me with a hefty chunk of "in the now", and set the hidden hook deep in my jaw, the friction of avoidance rubbing raw my better nature. Losing sight of how acceptance ends the struggle, swimming hard against the current wears me paper-thin. Exhausted, humbled, docile, being reeled in, the battle ends. Surrender's healing starts; a loving hand removes the hook and sets me on my way, no strings and no regrets.