Whats it be to be handsome? To have the attention of girls and then some? How do I measure self efficacy when getting a smile is still a victory? Should I spend my money on personal things or have my wardrobe bursting at the seams? Whats the difference between a lustful stare and a rejectful laser beam? Every girl can be hard to get on welfare "But there's still someone for you out there" Who can see beyond the mirage at sea to the core of personality.