We get our Hope and Joy, not from circumstances nor situations. But from the Lord, whom give us rest when we are wearily. We live not to please people whom may fail us in this life of ours. But we live to please the only one whom is perfect in every way. For life is not about what we get or whom we married to here. But about whom loves us while we live and mourns for us when we are gone. We live Spiritually because heavenly things outweigh physically things. We need to worry about those around us in our lives here on the earth. Then about those that could care less whether we live or die. For Christ puts those in our lives for a special reason too. They do not have to be living near us but if we are on their minds and vice versa then they been put in our lives.