We expect life to build steadily, experiences improving, possessions increasing, intimacy building as time goes by until, in a grand crescendo, we are fulfilled one day
On our death bed, we say goodbye to those we hold dearest We weep as we hold hands, but we know we have lead a good life and we will be remembered
The fear of regret we once held has long been dissipated We wound up with the right partner We went without so our kids could attend the best schools They will have an even better life than we
But how many lives truly end this way, and how many in common tragedy?