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Dr Peter Lim May 21
We all have
a dark side
but such from others
we cleverly hide
Dr Peter Lim May 20
Zen
The answer will arrive
when you no longer
struggle or strive
Dr Peter Lim May 20
When the world
regards me as wise
my freedom I'd have lost-
when I'm set aside
I'll be in no way agonised
Dr Peter Lim May 20
A hero
can also be
a villain -
this is harsh reality
Dr Peter Lim May 19
In response to a post on Norman Vincent Peale:


Norman Vincent Peale whom we read in our youth was a motivator, not a thinker.  A proponent of positive thinking, he was able to sway thousands but he never had depth.  


His thinking and standing have been over-estimated.


The same applies to the thinking of William Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill and many undistinguished  others'.


The first positive thinking founders were Confucius and his most ardent discipline, Mencius. Re: THE ANALECTS of Confucius and THE BOOK OF MENCIUS.


They both upheld these thoughts:

human nature is inherently good; it can be perfected by self-cultivation which leads to 'ren' ( benevolence/ human-heartedness); this makes the 'superior man' (junzi) who excels in love, compassion, virtue,righteousness, decorum, altruism, selflessness, sincerity, loyalty, wisdom, filial piety, respect for elders and others, who serve as role-model for people and who is qualified to serve as ***** servant and contribute to the well-being of society and the nation.  He seeks morality while the xiaoren (the inferior person) who seeks only profit or benefit.


It is evident from the above that such a philosophy is life-affirming and brings out the best postiof human goodness.  This indisputably is the root of positive thinking long before modern thinking on the subject.


There is much merit in cognitive behavioural therapy founded by Alan Beck with Albert Ellis and Martin Seligman as exponents.  CBT is based on positive psychology and its influence will continue ti grow in these days of stress, anxiety, depression and existential angst.

Bearing Confucian psychology on the subject enriches our understanding and also throws light on the similarity of Eastern and Western thinking in this regard.
Dr Peter Lim May 19
Fishes swim in water
    winds blow in the air all over
    the flowers bend to touch each other
    I come to you in fervour--as your lover !
Dr Peter Lim May 19
The common path
is not mine
it welcomes me not
its look isn't kind

knowing too well
I'm unlike the rest
who must comply
while I stand unimpressed -

the community
of similar thought
there behoves
follow that I cannot

the  hidden path
I've chosen
freedom I now claim
which can't be ever stolen.
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