'Now, I will love myself'
Big words we throw about
Being independent and confident
About being there for ourself
How many times have we practiced it or at least thought for it?
How many times have you pampered yourself?
Taken you out to some restaurant for good food?
Bought yourself your favorite chocolates? Shared your happiness or pain with yourself?
Talked to yourself, told yourself that you are beautiful?
Praised your pros and respected your flaws?
Given some personal time from your busy schedule to yourself?
Well! we haven't
We have been expecting from others
And doing things for others
Okay, it's good about putting efforts for others
But sometimes!
Try loving yourself, Try caring yourself
Try being there for you
Be the master of your happiness
It feels good my friend
I bet you, it feels good

Life if everyday becomes the same
Then will there be a price of it?
Isn't the happier times defined by the sad ones
In the huge dark room of chaos
Won't a moment of peace be the most soothing one?
Like a warm Ray of sun be  therapy for a cold winter day
Would you value the sun the same way if it was the warmest all day long?
Full moon night is pretty because of that dark night without moon
We want things to last forever
Would you value it then like the same way you do now ?
Life is a thrill because it doesn't give you the things you want instantly
You wait for it, have that strong desire, work for it , pray for it
And  when you get it
You shall keep it  valued and precious
So embrace every moment in life
Let your bad times come
To make your good times beautiful and memorable!

Love is you sleeping silently when they choose a match
Or a movie over you on some days.
Love is you letting them enjoy with their friends
Or have time with family and not creating an issue.
Love is encouraging them make their own decisions freely
And being okay with their privacy.
Love is having patience to listen them share their work thing or their study thing
Where you neither interest nor idea about it
But you just enjoy to listen them speak with the sparkle in their eyes
Love is you two, being the complete opposite and yet
Accepting each other in their natural form without the demand of change
Love is giving them freedom to fly free, not holding them to the ground
Anything that has restrictions and not allows you to be yourself is never love!

My dear sister, friend, aunt or a senior
You have crossed a long journey to reach here today
Look at yourself and be proud of what you are
With that dream job you got or that dream degree you graduated in
With the freedom you get, your wings wide open when you fly high
Be proud for being independent, for taking responsibilities
For taking and applying your own decisions
For creating a safer and happier future for yourself
For waiting till the time you learn to help your family economically
It's okay to reach 30 and still be unmarried
Marriages can wait lady, it can wait
Until you are ready physically, mentally, socially and economically
It can wait, till any age you reach
Cause age is just a number, never a limit nor a boundary!

You are a burning fire
Capable of giving heat and warmth
Or burning everything wild into ashes
YOU, are standing here today with your wings
Ready to fly high, all set and prepared
You see the  the weapons coming to you right?
To cut  your wings and throw you down in the ground again
But today these wings cannot be cut
The wings that you have today has taken
Years to grow, nurtured by struggle
Watered with tears of pain and despair
Manured with the sensation of darkness all around
Your roots are strong, since you have grown
Facing all the storms and thunder of problems
So, fly high today!
Fly high leaving every thing behind
Fly to conquer your dreams
Fly to catch the colors of rainbow
And paint yourself today
You are not someone be in the ground my friend
You  are someone to touch the sky!

Take me there, to the world
Where!
Everyone could speak their heart out
Without having to think about the results
Where no more mask of fakeness one would have to wear
Just to impress the society and people
And you being a real you would be enough
Where people would be understood for everything they do
Without having a tagline of explanation to carry
Where trust would be so easily gained
No twice thinking and looking back would be needed
Where,
One would have enough courage to
To hear their inner voice  act as it says to stand for themselves!

If you ever ask me, what made me write
I would answer it's you
You are the reason behind my every creation
As you were the reason behind my every destruction
You gave me pain, I learnt to write about it
You gave me smile, I learnt to write about it
You gave me courage, I learnt to write about it
You gave me growth, I grew writing about you
You are connected in my every word
And you are expressed in my every code
You are within me, you live within me
How far I try to run from you
You remain to stay right there
So thank you, for making me pour you
Through the path of words
Oh are you still wondering who the 'YOU' is?
It's you 'LOVE', It's you.