there is really something horrible
about being understood by someone.
having another soul that just - "gets it"
having another living being that relates.

because it means that they have felt your hurt
they've cried your tears, thought your thoughts
they have lived the terrors in your head and
endured the anguish  that lives in your heart.

that is why it is terrible to be understood.
my heart breaks anew when someone tells me
"i get it"