Why does a heart love more than one person at a time? And leave you confused with emotion? Then it all goes south and you shield your self away from love again. People can love more than one person at a time, but only be in love with one person no matter what. If this is true why does our heart not know what we want? I have this battle of having three women in my heart, and i don't know what i want yet. I am lost in a sea of confusion, and pain is all i feel!