I do not say 'I love you.' I don't like to be touched I won't listen to affectionate speeches I refuse to be fussed over I can't accept mushy cards or presents I barely understand words of emotion
I hold hands or link arms to feel close I offer advice if it's needed (even if you do not ask) I can make you smile or laugh if you're scared or angry I give without expecting back I defend even at my own expense I talk to fill the silence, even when I wish for quiet I will never say something intentionally hurtful I always think first I will only tell you what you need to hear I will teach you to be a better you