When you come to a point in life were your lost Who am I Why do I have to be categorized in one group. Why cant I be diffrent to each person I encounter Why do we want to be accepted and understood

Sexuality 
My sexuality has always been a issue for me. When your taught to be innocent and lady like but your really trying to stop yourself for wanting to be ****** by 2 men. Who am I
When your taught that being overly ****** is wrong So you start to think it is wrong.
Then your told that your not being true to yourself because your not letting certain ****** desires out
But wait who am I
I was alway taught that being overly ****** was wrong So now it's wrong for me not to let certain ****** desire out
It's all come to a point were your so lost in the sauce Society says as a women your suppose yo behave a certain way My mother tells me no man want to marry a **** 
Why do having certain ****** desire has to categorize me as a ****
It all come to a point were your overthinking everything. You get so lost in your thoughts that you forget who u are
Then you stop and have a revolution 

I know who I am I'm ****** controlling, submissive  independent  intelligent crazy emotional depressed (at times) happy loving and caring 
You cant group me in one category I have such life in me that by putting me in one category would lessen your experience of getting to know who I am