She greatly disliked emotion, not because she felt lightly, but because she felt deeply.

'-And if it did,
that didn't happen.
because it wasn't that bad,
and you're just overreacting
it's not a big deal
and if it was,
it's not my fault
and if it is,
I didn't mean it
and if I did mean it,
you made me do it.
It's your fault, not mine,
I'm the victim here,
and it's going to stay that way.'

-trust a man that tries to destroy you when he's mad.
That's weak.