most of my house is contained on one floor; my mother can't move like she used to. she can never keep the moles and gophers from eating her garden, but she tries anyway. the look of accomplishment painted on her face when she picks her own tomatoes is worth the struggle. it makes my best friend feel at home.
my father buys new kitchen appliances and turns to home improvement when i'm out of town. I always joke that these things fill the void. he has a wine cellar and a bar in our basement that we use once a month because he likes to show his friends. it's just another way to prove that he knows everything.