I let Tony know left a message on his phone "Dude...my grandma died" he called back twice then dropped a text "call me" I was hesitant but did first thing he said "I'm sorry man...that *****..." but in minutes my spirits were up it's like I never left I was so scared things would feel broken I was wrong he hung up with an "I love you Dan" I couldn't have asked for a better friend to help me through as we change from children into men
Saying "that *****..." in such a situation seems rude, but my friends from home know that to us "that *****..." speaks volumes, it's an unspoken agreement, almost like a prayer. Thanks Tony, you have no idea what it means