true pain is the kind that is u n f i x a b l e the kind that doesn't come with an instruction manual and a simple way to make up for it pain that never goes away because it never can true suffering is found in this pain and true strength is found in living through it or, rather, learning to live despite it.
this chapter doesn't have a happy ending, or a true ending at all; true pain is found in the lack of closure that comes with life-changing tragedy.