However gently, be it in a letter or conversation. When the words of rejection fade, all that is left is the sting. Despite your efforts, aspirations, dreams, hopes, even the way you feel. The knowledge of being spurned cuts deeper than any broadsword, cutlass or saber. Along with that person you lose your desire to change or grow. You wish everything to remain the same as before, hoping by some miracle, he will return. Then your mind returns to reality and all that is left is the sting.