I know from experience how hard it can be to deal with true pain.
I felt inner pain most of my life, but it only made me that much stronger.
Do not look at pain as a bad thing, for sometimes God uses that pain.
To push you through the fires, molding you into a Mighty Warrior.
That can sympathize and love other people through your experience.
You have learn knowledge on what they are going through now.
So that you may help lead them out of the hopelessness and darkness.
The sorrow and suffering has only made you that much stronger.