I used to say, In a judgmental way, This is what forty five looks like. I used to preach, In my ego speech, Get bangs not Botox. Be like me. Be whole, be pure, Being real is the cure. Be like me. But now I see, How my judgments blinded me Of who you are While I hissed…be like me. Now I see What I missed…you are like me. I am sorry sister. I judged myself as true And in turn I ended up judging you. Forgive me. For I am you and You are me.