Hopeless isn't a word I would use lightly. It's more of a let-down than a cheer-uper, Always signaling the end, always at the end.
Go isn't a word I would use heavily. It's more of a cheer-uper than a let-down, Always signaling the start, always at the start.
So what word is the middle? That space inbetween those points? The change to change? Or the change to act? No, that space is now, so use it heavily or only use it ever so lightly