There's a faded scar on my right shoulder from three summers ago, two more on my left from this winter. One on my chin from the pavement that got the better of an 8 year old who couldn't say "no", and another on my wrist to remind me that metal detectors no longer find me empty.
It's alright that you left, but please don't act like I'll just be okay again. I don't heal well, never have.