self harm is a misguided concept where people think that if you don't drag a blade across your skin that you are not in pain but they believe that if you choose to do so that you are seeking for attention whether you are the holder of the blade or the skin beneath it you are the wrong no matter what the right but the symptom from depression is not just cutting and leaving scars it's about destroying your body whether that's your physical being or the helpless voice inside your mind