In a perverse sort of serendipity our friendship shaped itself around our one common bond when not even our closest allies wanted to acknowledge the elephant in the room.
When everyone else in our little worlds went on about their business again you and I granted each other the right to our indulgences, a place to put the pain for a time.
Even in our mutual weakness we mustered the strength to pull each other out of the murky depths to that little pocket of oxygen which would save us from drowning at least for this one day.
We understood every nuance of each others' private torture, having walked too many miles in those same shoes. No emotion was too intense no thought too bizarre to be voiced.
And then our friendship seemed to wane by degrees, as if it had served its purpose as if we never had much in common except that one awful truth informing our lives for a while.
I see us drifting apart, my friend now as our grief has softened and we've begun to open our doors to the world outside that all-consuming pain which once brought us together but can no longer be enough.