No means no, not right now means no, stop means no, silence means no, lack of consent means no, anything other than yes means no.
It makes me sick and it turns my face red and I can't think when I hear about him.
When I hear about how great of a guy he is and how it's only alcohol that turns him into the monster that I see him to be always. In sobriety he makes me just as sick. Anybody that takes with asking, that doesn't listen, that feels entitled to *** when it is denied, makes me sick and should be hung, should be shot, should be ****** on and torn apart limb from limb.
Boys will be boys is not an excuse, alcohol is not an excuse, ignorance is not an excuse.