people look at happiness like 'well I'm not happy now because this this and this *****, and I can't change it, so I'll just wait to be happy' but if you just looked at happiness like 'well i have this this and this and at first I thought it ****** but I can't change it and since there's a lot of good parts I'll just look at those, and be happy' then I promise things would go a lot better for you.