I don't know how you get joy out of just saying no all the time You only wish to partake in those actions that you know will gratify you, and you never separate from those. You'll live a life, sure, but it won't be a very filled or exciting one- you've got your goals you will accomplish and that will be that and maybe you're fine with your existence, but I sure as hell wouldn't be satisfied. I'll burn down your ******* cubicle because I desperately don't want you to be confined, even if it is by your own design. You can make whatever choice you want and I want you to be happy, so go ahead and just simply logically exist while I'm having the time of my life- you can't hold me back, I'm done trying to pull you forward because you don't want to come, so looks like I'll be having fun without you, and you will have no idea what you're missing.