the great love poems are the ones about love that's unrequited, or impossible. without complications, the dust simply settles. people get used to love and it becomes a habit, it remains but sometimes they'll forget it's still there. and the poets, they write about what they'll never have, and perhaps there is beauty in that, in the literature of unending desperation, but by now I've come to realise that most poets'd gladly die for a chance to write bad poetry and the habit of a lifetime.