they say "make the most of the life you're given" which basically translates into "you're on your own, hopefully you don't **** it up" they don't tell you that you can't put your happiness in people nor do they tell you that you can feel so ******* low you take it out on yourself. so, instead of telling me "make the most of the life you're given" tell me "you're no always going to be happy people are going to let you down but there's always going to be concerts and weddings and chocolate chip pancakes and music **make the most of that