sometimes things hurt and sometimes they hurt and sometimes they hurt. I feel like there's a constant struggle between romanticizing pain and having compassion for it and a thing I'm starting to learn is that there's isn't different ways to love, when you love someone and they come off as feeling differently for you I think it's just because you expect them to match your feelings, without letting yourself breathe and understand that the only feelings that are ever gonna be felt are the ones in which you perceive and when you start to settle down or maybe go insane (however you wanna look at it) you start to see that the feeling in which you perceive is "the feeling," it's love, and the love can't do anything but be free, you can not keep it in a cage no matter how hard you try, your love cage is imaginary and it's going to be really really hard to get the person you have feelings for locked inside of it with you because it's not actually there, so instead of getting jealous of the person you love doing whatever they want with whoever they want, understand that happiness is beautiful and seeing them happy is all you really want, sometimes it feels like you need to let things go but the sound of that is never gonna feel the same as letting things be free ((mg))