it took me a while to realize i deserve to be happy, although it's easier said than done. once you embrace the things you can't change the things you see in the reflection and despise or the feelings within you that you can't shake off, no matter how many tears you try to wash them out with they will remain. i've learned that's the key, realizing that they will always be there but changing your perspective is the choice of happiness. accept inner and outer flaws, someone else adores them. once you embrace the traits about yourself you have shunned, it will be easier to face yourself with joy. in this world, you are the only you in existence. treat yourself well, treat yourself to positivity.