My dog died a couple of weeks ago, I guess. She's sitting in a small box in my mom's room now with a small statue of a mischievous fox and a photo of her golden snout on top. I didn't go to see her the last several times I was in town which means I didn't see her at all for months before she died. Maybe that's why I haven't cried until now; I don't deserve the consolation of sorrow.
I call her my dog because I was the youngster that necessitated a dog in 2000, nothing more. But Mali was my dog. I had to google map it to remember where in Africa, but Mali was a good name: A trite sound with an unusual source. In the end it was too appropriate, An arid name for a sandy dog that died too weak to get water and too alone to have it brought to her. For days.
When we brought her home all drugged and tiny, with Dumbo ears and lion paws, I wouldn't leave her side for days, eating and sleeping next to her on the floor, until I started feeling down. My mom told me it was like postpartum. How stark a contrast between her coming and her going! She still looked like a puppy to me the last time I saw her, though she moved more slowly.
Whenever I see home again, months from now, We'll take her ashes to the creek and avail them of the wind and the water she loved. My dog and my Park, both long neglected, relegated to that past that you can cry for but never reinvest in.