Everyone has things they go through. And your things are the worst I've heard. Life hasn't handed you an easy card, and with that card, you've played it well. Nothing you've done this year or last has been played incorrectly. I'm proud of you. You have a strong head on your shoulders, you're doing well for what's happening. But please remember these things: You don't have to have that strong head all of the time. When you're alone, and the memories flood all at once, cry. Nobody will think you're weak at all. When the memories flood, let them flood, because pretending nothing ever happened will only leave you with regrets. You and your family are the only important ones in your life. Keep them close to your heart, especially in the tough times ahead. Don't be afraid to yell over the mountains for help, somebody will come to your rescue. But especially remember, that you are great. Nothing will be able to get past you. Feel the sun shine on your face, and know that you're loved. By everyone.
Rest in Peace JV, you were a fantastic father, and you'll be missed by so many.