I am what I am. I am a hormonal ***** who doesn’t really understand why ***** describes girls. I am drained and have been on autopilot for nine years. I keep on forgetting I am sixteen, and that makes it ten. I am the Buddhist of a Christian family. Hidden meditation before forced services and watching my grandfather on a stage for three days a week. I’m still trying to get by. I am what I am. The sweetest and most sour liquid that has ever met my lips is *****. I feel pathetic for writing that. I am what I am. A ****-wrecked liver at age sixteen. I am what I am. A role model for five children younger than seven, and then there’s me, drinking Grey Goose from the bottle. It’s going to make my throat warm and my swarming soul pain teeter-totter to a rest. The best past time I have found is trying to fix myself. I am what I am. That’s not good enough.
My grandmother says that because I am depressed there are demons living in the rooms of my chest. I want to tell her that if she would peer into my stained-glass window eyes she would see that no one lives in me; not the devil, or demons, or God.
I just pray that she doesn’t open the basement doors and find a swimming pool of the clear stuff. I am sixteen. I have to keep writing this or I feel like it’s not true and I’m not real. I am an aspiring alcoholic. I am what I am, and I need change. Bad. But the habits are even worse, and I’m stuck with these bruising memories. A curse from my past. Heroine and Marijuana. Highs that never lasted long enough for a mother of one. Bore a daughter, but wanted a son, and I’m stuck not being good enough for the thousandth time in my life. Getting mixed between the names Matthew and Miranda when she was on the low side. Fast forward to high tide; she’s on cloud nine and I’m locked in my room. I can smell the scent of smoke that she tells me is perfume, and I’m wondering if I should be married to a boy, or a girl?
Same year. My first beer handed to me by the father of my first sibling. “It’ll put some hair on your chest.” he says. I am what I am. “Girls are not supposed to have hairy chests.” I say. My mom sends me to my room. I feel so horrid that I don’t eat for days. Two years later I find out about shaving my legs, find out that razors are sharper than the butter knife in the kitchen. I still have the word BOY? carved into my thigh.
I go to therapy weekly. My mind is made of Latin words that I don’t know how to translate. I’m seeing now that how you raise your heart is crucial. I’m seeing now that not drinking for five months is a triumph. I am what I am, not what I was brought up to be.