The reason I don't want her here is because I am large, and ungainly, and playing in the snow is for small people. The reason I don't want her here is because I'd rather have you in my arms. The reason I don't want her here is that her zest and spark for life is different from mine and I can no longer keep up. The reason I don't want her here is because she reminds me of the person I used to be- the person I can't get back.