To live a life of love you must not put
Put materials above priorities 
Just because something is beautiful 
Does not mean you must own that 
Beauty
For example a rose, symbolic for it's
Beauty
From it's perfect blood red petals, to
The blood drawing thorns on the stem of it's beauty
You don't rush in and grab the rose or you will be physically injured by it's natural defense using thorns
You can carefully clip the rose avoiding physical pain, but the rose will die eventually causing great emotional pain
In order to fully enjoy the beauty if the rose you must accept that it is where it is and can't not easily be moved, 
So you must yourself become a rose,
Plant yourself next to what you believe is beautiful and you shall live a beautiful and pure life