There is a solution for all of my problems, one easy fix that is evidently the most difficult aspiration I've ever been blessed with. There is a simple solution. IF you want to know this secret, this marvelous tactic, if you are ready to know it, here it is: Give up on trying so hard to achieve things that are given to us only by time. Give it up. I promise, as soon as you do, and I mean REALLY do, it will all fall into place. Now, I've never really been the mystic, spiritual type, but there is no logical reason this tactic works; it just does. So I have no other choice than to believe it is the workings of something out there I do not understand. Honestly, that is one belief I am perfectly okay with having.