pick and choose, they say, just because you didn't catch the bouquet doesn't mean it's okay to reel in a bucket of that many fishies and not set even one free you don't need that many fishies, they say but I insist on upgrading my aquarium each and every day I swear there aren't two of the same and so what if I'm a collector so what if I like the way it feels so what if boredom stabs and I need a refreshment so what if I don't understand commitment because they have feelings, they say, so it doesn't make it okay!