i spent the last weekend with my older brother and his girlfriend from mexico, and it'd been seven years since i'd been in san antonio and the first time in my life i'd ever seen my brother without my family.
he's grown so much from since when he left, and he is an amazing person and in ways we are the same and it's interesting to connect with someone you never spent a lot of time with, and it's interesting to talk to blood and be thankful for the fact they exist.