I once had a man in my life who told me I wasn't hungry while I was starving and that I should be a little more fortunate and think about those who have nothing while I'm throwing up and throwing away the one thing we need to survive
but I don't think he understood how much pressure he put on me to look the part and act it, too I guess he never knew how hard it was for me to hear that I wasn't hungry, I just "wanted" food when it was very much the opposite.