I hate this term! As a mentally ill woman, what makes you think you know, what’s better for me? Let alone to know what makes me think? The surface is what you see, and if I don’t know you well; what you see is your own image. I wear it better, maybe that’s why they envy me? I have my own flaws, I learned to take accountability. That’s the difference, that some cannot see. A symptom for BPD is guilt and shame. I have managed it, I say it out loud! Those who have wished on my downfall, I see them drown! You know nothing, i’ll let you in on a secrete, I am very proud of who I am! I don’t care about the fame, just here me out. As write MY LIFE away!